by Connie Limon
Before your baby arrives, imagine what your dog’s behavior
might be around an infant.
Plan your schedule. Dogs like routine. Establish a schedule for your
dog before the baby arrives and stick to it.
Schedule should include:
1. Walking times.
2. Play periods.
3. Mealtimes
4. Anything else you can think of.
You might be too tired to walk the dog early in the morning after being
up and down all night with the new baby. You might want to change the
walk time with your dog before the baby arrives. You may need to arrange
with a friend to help with the dog just after the baby’s arrival. Maybe
a teenager would like a few extra dollars for walking your dog. You
might not ever need the help, but it is wise to plan ahead in case you
do. The planning, of course, is great for your dog, but it is more for
your own personal comfort.
A dog on a routine and well exercised is less likely to be competitive
of the new baby. The dog on a routine may also be less demanding of
your attention.
Your baby is going to be napping on the couch or lying on the bed.
Teach your dog to stay on the floor unless invited up with a clear command.
Watch your words! For your dog’s whole life before the baby he has
probably heard things like: “what a good little boy.” You have taught
him certain words are just for him. Now the baby arrives. You say something
like: “mommy’s good little boy.” The dog suddenly runs up for you to
pet him. You push him away. The dog becomes confused. Avoid the confusion
by developing some new key phrases for your dog and only the dog. Make
this change as soon as possible.
Games in the house: If you have played ball with your dog in the house
he will most likely jump over about anything to get to the ball you
threw out. With a baby or a toddler in the house as well, these types
of games are best outdoors. An unpredictable bounce of a ball can lead
to an unanticipated pounce on baby by the dog.
Be careful about giving your dog extra attention because you know that
soon a baby will be in the house and you might not have as much time
to spend with your dog. Dogs get use to the extra attention really quick.
When the attention has to be suddenly shifted to the new baby, it is
unfair to the dog and sets a stage for competition between the dog and
the baby. A good rule to begin to follow before the baby arrives is
no more than ten minutes of attention per hour when you are home.
You want your baby’s arrival to be a welcome event. Speak kindly to
the dog as you to into the baby’s room. Include the dog in what you
are doing whenever possible. Be extra warm and kind to the dog when
he is around the baby or toddler, and the rest of the time, in the beginning
sort of ignores the dog. He will associate time around the baby as being
an enjoyable time for everyone.
Connie Limon is a Shih Tzu breeder. She publishes a FREE weekly newsletter.
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